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The abuse was NOT reciprocal because she was NOT being abused. The sexual assault charge was fabricated to gain sympathy, and her husband was acquitted accordingly, by a jury of nine women and three men. It was he who was being abused by her, and he was in the process of trying to leave her. He had already insisted she terminate the pregnancy, and considered her unfit to be a mother, and later asked for a divorce, because she was plainly unfit to be a wife! She was a jealous, possessive, greedy, grasping, sexually demanding, temperamental, dishonest woman, who shoplifted expensive dresses and stole $7000 from her best friend, who had taken her in and given her a job in her beauty salon. She was constantly punching her husband and starting fights, which the police attended half a dozen times, and four years after she cut off his penis she was charged with assaulting her mother: "Neighbours told the police that Ms. Gallo's mother, Elvia Gallo, 49, was watching television on Friday when her daughter started punching her. Her mother suffered minor injuries, including an abrasion around the eyes, and scratches." Lorena Bobbitt was the classic female DV perpetrator - to all outward appearances a paragon of meekness and virtue, but behind closed doors with her intimate partner, a volatile combative she-devil! As an ex-Marine he could hardly be expected to submit to her punches, but his only response was to restrain her forcefully, and perhaps roughly at times, and enter into verbal altercation with her, no doubt inflamed by alcohol at times. Clearly he never retaliated, because she was never seriously injured. Don't forget, we're talking about a bouncer and former U.S. Marine, versus a petite woman half his size. Consider the level of self-restraint exercised there, even under the influence of alcohol. That is NOT reciprocal violence.

The fact that she's managed to parlay her own domestic abusiveness into a career in DV advocacy is ironic in the extreme, but testament to her adaptability and talent for manipulating those around her. Of course, she's been greatly assisted in that regard by the stupidity and naivety of men, notably her documentary producers, and the current fashion of female victimhood in this MeToo believe-all-women world.

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Clayton Robertson's avatar

Very well said and RIGHT OVER the head of almost everyone… 😞

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